I have questions, my baby grey comes home tomorrow I was told to keep her in her cage the first day

I was in college, and took him EVERYWHERE. He was rarely in his cage except when I was gone. I was never gone for more than 6 hours at a time. He even came to work alot with me (with mentally challenged people). My parents would set a place at the table with him (he really bonded with my mom), he'd go to parties, and hang out with my friends. He was a typical college bird as a baby. Probably ate too much junk food, but he's turned out okay :-)

He has never had screaming issues.

He is not afraid of very much of anything.

He uses words in context and is very well mannered.

Since he turned 4 year old or so, he hasn't been so codependent (he started going thru adolescence around that time).

He's pretty darn well adjusted and will let almost anyone handle him.

I think that this is because I totaly spoiled him as a baby!

Good luck with your new lifelong companion! How exciting!