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Should I get a new cat2007-11-25 12:25:51

I've had 2 cats (brothers) for 8 years. Earlier this year, I had to have one put to sleep (after a couple of big operations) because he had cancer. The other one, who was a bit standoffish, is now a totally different cat, very friendly now, but I worry he's lonely (I'm out at work all day). I'm toying with the idea of getting another cat, but I don't want to put my cat's nose back out of joint! What do people think?

Answers:

hey there.

I agree with katrina. The surviving cat is probably more friendly now because he's lost his brother and he could indeed be feeling lonely.

it would probably take time for him to adapt to having a newbie in the house, especially in 'his' territory, but in the end i believe it will make him happier. He would have a new playmate, he would be the 'boss' and he wouldn't be so lonely anymore.

I'm sure this is preaching to the choir here, but just make sure that if you do get a new cat / kitten that you ensure that the older one still gets lots of attention from you. He could be feeling a bit lost and a little bit jealous at first.

Hope everything goes okay for you both.

ps mick's answer was very good too.his was posted as i was answering so i hadn't noticed it before!

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get him another pal to play with..

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Yes

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if your cat seems happier now he has all your attention i would just leave it at that just get him plenty of toys etc to play with while you are at work cats sleep most of the day anyway

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If he changed it is because he is happier. especially if he did a 180 like that. He may be fine. Cats sleep lots. I had 2, and when it became 1 he changed as well. He is happier. Animals can be like people. You can't just pull one in and get along. It may be hard for him to like a new cat. He may be jealous over sharing you too. Only you can be sure what is best. I hope it works out for you. I know you want him to be happy. Maybe a few toys for while you are away, ands extra attention when you are home? If you need to get another your cat should be involved too. Sort of like choosing a room ate. LOL It does seem like he is fine though.

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you can but you mite want to let the other cat go with you when you get the new one becouse the last thing you want is the older cat to see it as you not likeing it any more by the way sorry to hear about your cat I know that had to be hard I could never have the guts for that I love all my pets and to put one down I would die with it

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sure go ahead and get another, but try to take some time off work just so you can make sure they are going to get along. Also if your cat has been spayed I'd suggest getting a female, less chance of fighting. You never know a new kitten might give the other a new lease of life.

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At his age, he might not take to it too readily at first. But given time, he would probably learn to enjoy the new company. Just remember that a kitten may be too energetic for him at his age, while a fully adult male may be a cause for some harsh territorial battles. If you're going to get a male, an in between age might be best; somewhere between 6 and 9 months maybe. And make sure he's neutered BEFORE you introduce him to your other cat.