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Do I break up with my boyfriend or give up my dogs2007-11-25 3:00:40

I have two German Shepherd dogs, one is 3 the other one is 6 years old. The man I live with absolutely hates dogs. Since he moved in ( in Feb. 2006), I gradually had to make my dogs outside dogs, because he can't stand having dogs in the house. Sometimes he would tolerate the male, Max, but I don't know how this will work out, because I love my dogs, I moved 2600 miles cross country with my dog Max, and adopted the female, Stella, when I arrived here.He knew I had dogs the day we met, but I didn't know how much he disliked dogs until he moved in with me.

Answers:

DUMP HIM NOW!

(And I don't mean Max.)

He knew you had them but now wants them effectively gone. He is trying to control you. That is a prime sign of a potentially abusive relationship - emotionally if not physically

He doesn't like the dogs. My grandmother always told me to never trust people who disliked animals. If they couldn't be kind to an animal who demands nothng and gives only love, they certainly won't treat people any better.

Married for over 2 decades

Trained show and handled for 43 years

Retired lawyer

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I would keep the dogs and break up, if u absolutly love dogs and want to be with them your whole life, he won't want to be your whole life, so DITCH THE MAN!.

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break up with him

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honestly.get rid of him. Think of it THIS way..ONE..the dogs were there first. they are supposed to be like your kids, if they dont approve of their new father, then dont keep him, you wouldnt put your kids up for adoption because the new guy doesnt like them.another..dogs are like your best friends and are very loyal. obviously if u love dogs and he doesnt and its not working., hes not the perfect guy for u. dont u want a man that is going to love your pets? or a guy where u or your children can never have a dog? the dogs arent going to leave u or cheat on u or hurt your feelings. but your boyfriend sure will.